Is it really possible to find a wife on a dating site? I mean, given the nature of online dating and all, it seems like there could be some real wierdos lurking on the net. Hopefully this article can debunk a few little known myths about meeting your love online.
It was 15 months ago today that I met my partner online, on one of Australia’s well known dating sites. I found her profile online and it stirred my curiosity. You know, it may not have ever happened if I decided not to contact this woman because she didn’t have a profile picture on display. I figured that everyone’s worth at least one crack.
Well I can tell you, I struck up the nerve to send a virtual kiss to this woman, and after exchanging a few emails, our interest in each other began to blossom. It seems difficult to expect that a relationship online could really grow, having seen just a couple of pictures, after making email contact. But it’s funny how strange things happen. We hadn’t met each other but were pretty sure that things would hit off, before we even met. I guess you could just call it that intuition.
If someone were to ask me: “Can you really find a wife on a dating site?” – I would reply that it all depends on your own attitude and approach to online dating. Like anything, your level of success depends mainly on your effort and positive attitude. I can say without doubt you can certainly find your own wife online. The question is not whether dating sites can deliver you your wife, but whether you have the drive and the compulsion to find your love. You can find her anywhere.
Today I write this hub telling you that next month my partner and I are getting married after around 15 months of dating, since meeting from a dating site. And this is largely because I made the decision to follow up that “profile” online without a picture, which I could easily have not decided to contact. We met after around 3 months of emailing and chatting online. It was really good spending that time online chatting with each other. Neither one of us felt we were rushing into anything, and we were both nervous about meeting. Just as you can meet your next girlfriend, partner or wife in a bar, a restaurant, bus stop or dating site, in my experience, meeting from a dating site is by far the easiest way to meet someone. Think of the conveniences:
1. No having to confront that nervy “breaking the ice” bit which involves approaching someone in real life. However if you have the courage to do this, then I really admire you
2. No having to worry about what you’re wearing, before the big “meet up”
3. You have more time to organize your thoughts when emailing someone online
4. You have time to consider replies to another person online
5. Everyone else on dating sites want to meet their special someone so you can’t feel out of place
There is absolutely nothing stopping your from meeting your wife online on any dating sites you decide to join. The deciding fact isn't about which site to join, but what your mental attitude and state of mind - You will see that it’s really quite simple.